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Showing posts with label Gary Barlow. Show all posts

Saturday, 9 December 2017

All That I've Given Away-Gary Barlow


The telephone it never rings when you want it to ring,
when it rings it's never the voice you needed to hear,
it's funny how the radio sings the words you meant to say,
and when you need a smile you only find a tear,
I'm in deep regret,
tryin' to forget,
but hope we'll never sleep when we're apart,

All that I've given, given away,
is all that I need here tonight,
the more that I try to, try to forget,
is the more this empty heart seems to fight,
it fights for all that I've given away,
hoo ooh ooh,
all that I've given away,

The day it never goes too fast when you need it to pass,
and every corner of the night loneliness sleeps,
and though I'll never hear the answer to the questions that I've asked,
often wonder what our future would have been,
this deep regret,
makes it harder to accept,
that love could pay the price from the heart,

All that I've given, given away,
is all that I need here tonight,
the more that I try to, try to forget,
is the more this empty heart seems to fight,
it fights for all that I've given away,

Well I know the load of changes slowly turned you upside down,
and the pieces of your life fall all around,
and at times it's hard to recognise the pace you've always lived,
where's the sun? Where's the sky?
What is love? What is life? Who am I?
whoa oh whoa oh, who am I?
And I feel it now?

(all I've given away, is all the I've been living for today)
it's all that I've been living for today
(all I'm feeling inside)
feeling inside
(it's everything I'm living for today)
it's all that I've given away.....


Stronger-Gary Barlow

Umm, stronger,
so strong, oh

Stronger ev'ry day,
stronger ev'ry night,
holdin' out for peace,
now I'm feelin' stronger,

Watchin' as this storm goes by,
I can see a light,
prisoner of my own design,
my hands are firmly tied,
I could just fade away,
live a life unkown,
I could be somewhere else,
but now I'm heading home, oh

Stronger ev'ry day,
stronger ev'ry night,
holdin' out for peace,
now I'm feelin' stronger,

Walkin' from that sheltered world,
with nowhere left to hide,
my naked soul is runnin' free,
my eyes are open wide, (eyes are open)
searchin' for the higher ground,
to make my life complete,
it's only when you climb that mountain,
the world is at your feet, oh

Stronger ev'ry day,
stronger ev'ry night,
holdin' out for peace,
but ready now to fight, oh,
life owes me nothin',
I have tasted ev'rythin',
but I can't wait much longer,
now I'm feelin' stronger,

(stronger each day)
(stronger each night)
(stronger each day)
oh so stronger
babe I'm feelin'

Stronger ev'ry day (stronger ev'ry day)
stronger ev'ry night (ev'ry night)
holdin' out for peace (for peace yeah)
but ready now to fight (oh to fight)
life owes me nothing (nothin')
I have tasted ev'rythin',
but I can't wait much longer,
now I'm feelin' Stronger,

(I'm feelin' stronger,
I'm feelin' stronger)
feel so strong
oh so strong

Thursday, 7 December 2017

Fast Car-Gary Barlow

You've got me thinkin' 'bout tomorrow,
although I'm livin' in today,
you've got me wishin' I lived in another world,
though in my home I wanna stay,

You're tellin' me you understand,
but you don't really know now who I am,
or what I do,
you're tellin' me we'll work it out,
then all you do is kick and scream and shout,
what more can I say,

Fast car take me home,
to the place where I can breathe where I feel strong,
fast car take me back,
to the place where I'm free at last,
so free at last,
heh,
yeah eh eh heh,
oooh ooh ohh,

Why did I let you come this far,
why did I let you tear me down, baby,
I should have known it from the start, I didn't,
you turned a page without a sound,

You're tellin' me I've got to learn,
but you're love has so many twists and turns,
I can't find my way,
you're tellin' me it's all a shame,
but now I feel this soul has got no name,
and to you t's all a game,

Fast car take me home,
to the place where I can breathe where I feel strong,
fast car take me back,
to the place where I'm free at last,
so free at last,
at last yeah,
ooh hooo,

You're tellin' me it's all a shame,
but now I feel this soul has got no name,
and to you it's all a game,

Fast car take me home,
to the place where I can breathe where I feel strong,
fast car take me back,
to the place where I'm free at last (so free at last baby)

Fast car take me home,
to the place where I can breathe where I feel strong,
fast car take me back,
to the place where I'm free at last,
so free at last
[fade out]
 

Lie To Me-Gary Barlow

mmmmm
mmmmm,

So, if this is the last time,
we will be standing wall to wall,
we're right to surrender,
soon we can walk through different doors,
we've a million reasons,
just to be apart,
'till the morning comes,
and before the emptiness starts,
will you just,

Lie to me,
whisper the words that you don't mean,
share with me the love, that you'll never feel,
baby lie to me,
show me the way we'll never be,
and the tenderness that I'll never see,
baby lie to me,

mmmm,
yeah e heh eh,

I, know what you're thinking,
but I don't believe we could go on,
and I know the feeling,
the feeling inside when love has gone,
now the times upon us,
only pain can win,
baby one last time before the loneliness begins,
will you just,

Lie to me,
whisper the words that you don't mean,
share with the love that you'll never feel,
baby lie to me,
show me the way we'll never be,
and the tenderness that I'll never see,
baby lie to me,
ooh ooh hoo
oh
ooh hoo
mmmmmmm,

we have a million reasons,
just to be apart,
till the morning comes,
and before the emptiness starts,
will you just,

(lie to me)
oh to me
whisper the words that you don't mean
(share with me the love that you'll never feel)
no you'll never feel baby lie to me
just lie to me,
(show me the way we'll never be)
never be, ooh ooh hoo
baby lie to me,
ee ee ee,
(and the tenderness that I'll never see)
baby, bay lie to me,
oh hoa oh oh, oh hoa ohoh,
whoa oh hoa, whoa whoa oh,
Lie-i-i-i oh hoa whoa yeah,
baby, baby lie to me,
just lie to me,
(share with me the love that you'll never feel)
baby lie to me......

Saturday, 2 December 2017

Arms Around Me-Gary Barlow

Out of the water,
feelin' down feelin' cold,
into the fire,
to a world I've never known,
God I'm so tired,
it's been a long long road to here,
but God it's been worth it,
when I feel your body near,

With your arms around me,
love surrounds me,
ever by my side,
with your arms you hold me,
trust and show me,
all I feel tonight,
but all this time that I've been searchin',
all this time that I've been hurtin',
it heals,
when I'm in your arms each night,

Runnin' away from,
all the love I never knew, oh no,
only to fall,
into the arms of someone true, oh yeah,
now I've never noticed,
I've been searchin' for so long,
just waitin' to find,
someone to make me feel this strong,
oh,

With your arms around me,
love surrounds me,
ever by my side,
with your arms you hold me,
trust and show me,
all I feel tonight,
but all this time that I've been searchin',
all this time that I've been hurtin',
it heals,
when I'm in your arms each night,
whoa oh ho,

so safe in your arms,
whoa,
ho,
ho,

With your arms around me,
love surrounds me,
ever by my side,
with your arms you hold me,
trust and show me,
all I feel tonight,
whoa,
ho, oh oh,
yeah,
(so safe in your arms)
forever more,
(so safe in your arms)
whoa yeah,
So safe in your arms,
so safe in your arms,
so safe in your arms,
so safe in your arms,
whoa ho oh yeah....

For All That You Want-Gary Barlow

I can't sit and wait,
for you to say,
if there's room inside your heart,
I'm not used to playing,
love's silly games,
turn me down or let me start,

You have to believe I'll make things right,
open your arms give up the fight,

For all that you want,
for all that you're feeling,
there's a place where you can go,
for all that you need,
I will be waiting,
to be your life your hero,

Now if you decide,
to run and hide,
it's only you you're cheating,
(the key's in your hand)
the key's in your hand
(you must understand)
you must understand,
I won't be defeated no,

I really believe this goes inside,
open your arms let me see your light,

For all that you want,
for all that you're feeling,
there's a place where you can go,
for all that you need,
I will be waiting,
to be your life your hero,
oh,

I'm sure that you've heard this before so many times,
(so many times)
yeah,
but girl look inside my heart and you will find,
I'll be your life your hero,

I'll be the one to hold you,
I'll never let you go,
I'll always understand you baby,
to be your life your hero,

(for all that you want)
for all that you want,
(for all you're feeling)
for all that you're feeling,
(there is a place)
there's a place where you can go,
(for all that you need)
for all that you need,
(I will be waiting)
I will be waiting,
to be your life your hero,
whoa, ho,
(for all that you want)
whoa ho yeah,
(for all you're feeling)
(there is a place)
there's a place where you can go,
(for all that you need)
oh yeah,
(I will be waiting)
I will be waiting,
to be your life,
your hero....

Tuesday, 28 November 2017

Superhero-Gary Barlow

I can't sit and wait
For you to say
If there's room inside your heart
I'm not used to playin'
A silly game
So turn me down or let me start

You have to believe I'll make things right
Open your arms, give up the fight

For all that you want
For all that your feeling
There's a place where you can go
For all that you need
I will be waiting
To be your superhero

Now if you decide to run and hide
It's only if your cheating
The key's in your hand (the keys in your hand)
You must understand (you must understand)
I won't be defeated no
I really believe this goes inside
Open your arms
Let me see your right

For all that you want
For all that your feeling
There's a place where you can go
For all that you need
I will be waiting
To be your superhero
Ohhh
To be your superhero

I'm sure that you've heard this before so many times (so many times)
Girl look inside my heart and you will find
You'll find your superhero

I'll be the one to hold you
I'll never let you go
I know it's so good to tell you baby
To be your superhero

For all that you want
For all that your feeling
There's a place where you can go
For all that you need
I will be waiting
To be your superhero

For all that you want
For all that your feeling
There is a place where you can go
For all that you need
I will be waiting
To be your superhero

Always-Gary Barlow

I have been living
I have been fooled
I have been many things but I've always been in love with you
I have been traveling
Eating life's food
Though I've been far away
I have still remained in love with you

I've been given a chance to share my music with the world
Soon my song will be over
'till I sing the song of love
For me and you
I've been sharing with the world my songs of love

Well baby I have been learning
I have been used
I have been sheltering within this plenty world of love I share with you

I've been given the answer
I've been given words of love
I've been given the reason
And the reason I've been sharing with the world
I've been sharing with the world my songs of love
That's why I'll always be in love
I will always be in love
I will always be in love with you
Always be in love
I will always be in love
I will always be in love with you

Open Road-Gary Barlow

My life, is extraordinary bare
I fought the fear and chased the pain
My life, doesn't need to be explained
I chose to walk the line as one
Sometimes, as I live upon my island
Cut off from emotion and its pain
Ohhhh that's when, I am tempted by the waters
The waters that I can take me far away

So I'll just keep on walking down this open road
Hoping someone somewhere needs me
So I'll just keep on walking down this open road
Talking to the man who knows me
Yes he knows me
The man is me

My life, was once full of people's faces
Brought to me by love which isn't strange
Ohhhh my life, had the goodness of blue waters
A day's a day for all I used to say
Sometimes I can sit and cry my heart out
Drowning in my autocratic ways
Ohhhh that's when, I am tempted by the waters
Waters that can take me far away

So I'll just keep on walking down this open road
Hoping someone somewhere needs me
So I'll just keep on walking down this open road
Talking to the man who knows me
Yes he knows me
The man is me

My life, is now full of people's faces
Within the light of change I pulled away
Ohhhh my life, shows that no man is an island
I've exchanged the piece of life I cut away
Now you won't see me walking down that open road
I've found someone now who needs me
No you won't see me walking down that open road
I've found at last the man who knows me
Yes he knows me
And the man was me
The man was me

Never Knew-Gary Barlow

Ohhhh yeahh

I found the road to nowhere
The greener grass it turned to stone
Your shadowed face shines a rainbow now
The sign I found did point it home

Never knew that I'd miss you this way
Never knew that pain could survive here inside
Never knew that I'd miss you this much
I'm reaching out to touch
I'm calling out for love

I only walked to breathe again
I felt the walls were falling down on me
Caught a busy train to freedom
Now here I stand in this lonely town

Never knew that I'd miss you this way
I never knew that pain could survive here inside
Never knew that I'd miss you this much
I'm reaching out to touch
I'm calling out for love

And when stars fill the sky
It takes me back to the time
When we live for only love

Never knew that I'd miss you this way

Never knew that I'd miss you this way
I never knew that pain could survive here inside
Never knew that I'd miss you this much
And I'm reaching out to touch
And I'm calling baby calling
Ohhh...for your love

Ohhh never knew

Forever Love-Gary Barlow

Love, it has so many beautiful faces
Sharing lives and sharing days
My love it had so many empty spaces
I'm sharing a memory now
I hope that's how it stays

Now I'm deep inside love and still breathing
She is holding my heart in her hand
I'm the closest I've been to believing
This could be love forever

All throughout my life
The reasons I've demanded
But how can I reason
With the reason I'm a man

Oh, oh-oh-oh-oh yeah
Hmm

In a minute I'm needing to hold her
In an hour I'm cold, cold as stone
When she leaves it gets harder and harder
To face life alone

Now my dreams are filled
With times when we're together
Guess what I need from her
Is forever love

Ooh, Ooh, yeah
Oh, oh, oh, oh, mm-mm-mm
Oh, oh, yeah
Now I feel forever love

Ooh, ooh
Oh yeah
Well I feel...

Monday, 27 November 2017

Lay Down For Love-Gary Barlow



Hey,
hoh,
he-e-e-ey,
Lay down for love,
lay down,
yeah,

I was alone,
with you on my mind,
look at me now,
you've left me behind,
you're all that matters,
you are my life,
you are the one that should be here by my side,

(you are my lover)
yes you are,
you should be my friend,
don't you think we've got some talkin' to do?
Only love depends on you,

Don't tell me it's over,
'cos it's not over yet, no,
don't tell me you love me when you're tryin' 'a throw this love away,
don't throw this love away,
don't say that I changed girl,
because change is not enough, no,
don't tell me it's over,
when you know that we can fight,
you know, you gotta lay down for love,
you gotta lay down for love,
oh yeah,

So where is your kiss?
Where is your touch?
The taste of your lips,
I miss them so much,
you said you'd be back soon,
you said you'd be here,
you seem to run everytime love comes near,

(remember when we were lovers?)
Yes I do,
remember when we were friends, ooh oooh?
Don't you think we've got some talkin' to do?
In the end it's up to you,
(I got to talk to you!)

Don't tell me it's over,
'cos it's not over yet, no,
don't tell me you love me when you're tryin' 'a throw this love away,
don't throw this love away,
don't say that I changed girl,
because change is not enough, no,
don't tell me it's over when you know that we can fight it,
you know, you gotta lay down for love,

(lay down, lay down)
lay down for me, lay down for you,
lay down for everything you do,
'cos you know it's right,
you know it's time,
to love me for the rest of your life,
(love me for the rest of your life)
(even when you got good love you don't need it)
when you got good love,
(even when you got good love it ain't right)
it ain't right,
(all you gotta do is love me..)
to please me, oh oh oh,

whoo ooh ooh whoo ooh ooh whoo oooh ooh ooh,
yeah yeah,
ooh no no......
[fade out]

I Fall So Deep-Gary Barlow


I'm always thinkin' about you
I wonder if you can tell
These things I'm feelin' inside me
I keep them all to myself
Scared to show my true emotions
Don't wanna love alone

Because I fall, so deep
You'll never know
How far I go
And I know why
Hearts beat, desperately
I fall so deep
yeah I fall so deep,

Some people think love is foolish
While others think it's a game
I think that love is a fire
I'm burnin' up in your flame
I'm so lost in my emotions
Wanting you ever more, ooh ooh

Because I fall, so deep
You'll never know
How far I go
And I know why
Hearts beat, desperately
I fall so deep

I fall so deep
I fall so deep
I fall so deep

And I've come so close to the part
Where I reveal my heart to you
But I lose my nerve, can't find the words
To tell that it's true
I fall so deep

I fall, so deep
You'll never know
How far I go
And I know why
Hearts beat, oh so desperately
I fall so deep

I fall, so deep
You'll never know (never know)
How far I go (you'll never know)
And I know why
Hearts beat, desperately
I fall so deep

I'm always thinkin' about you (I fall so deep)
I wonder if you can tell (and I fall so deep)
These things I'm feelin' inside me (I fall so deep)
'Cause I fall so deep


Everything I Ever Wanted-Gary Barlow

You're everything I ever wanted and more
You're the girl that I've needed for so long
I think I'm old enough to know now
The reason I feel the way I do now

In my own words this love is so meant to be
It's in your eyes each time you're listening to me
I'm saying things I've never said before
And so naturally you're coming back for more
There's a reason why this love is changing my life

You're everything I ever wanted and more
You're in my mind, in my heart, in my soul
Each time I think about reason, my work, losing time
I just think about you and leave responsibility behind
And lead me back to you

My day it opens with your head on my shoulder
I love to kiss, touch, I love to hold ya
Our time it moves so fast
Every hour's a second till at last
We will sleep one night and that night is forever

You're everything I ever wanted and more
You're in my mind, in my heart, in my soul
Each time I think about reason, my work, losing time
I just think about you and leave responsibility behind

Everything, everything I want
Ooooo oh yeah
You mean everything and more to me

There's a reason why this love is changing my life

Cause you're everything I ever wanted and more
You're in my mind, in my heart, in my soul
Each time I think about reason, my work, losing time
I just think about you
Cause you're all I ever need
All I ever wanted and more
All I need
You're in my mind in my heart in my soul (you're everything)
And each time I think about reason, my work, losing time
I just think about you
And leave responsibility behind 

Are You Ready Now-Gary Barlow

Can we share tonight the years we've been apart baby
From the time we said goodbye until now
How the nights we laughed and loved still feel like yesterday
How I'm hoping you still feel the same
(So) strange we're standing here after all this time
Strange when the present and the past collides
Memories of our days apart I feel they're fading fast
Silence for my questions here at last

Are you ready now for me to love you
Are you ready now to give this love a try
Are you ready now for me to give you trust to give you truth
Are you ready now for me
Ready now for me to say I love you

The look upon your face shows no surprise baby
Guess you always knew when things played on my mind
I believe in second chances
I believe in love for life
I believe you can maybe lose love once but never twice

Throw the past aside
Let's make up for lost time
If we let this love pass by we may never find these feelings again in our lives

Sunday, 26 November 2017

Hang On In There Baby-Gary Barlow

Mmmmm
Yeah, gonna make love tonight
Hang on in there baby
Mm mm ohhhh
We can't help but make it
We're gonna make love tonight
Whoaaaohh
Wooo!

Now that we've caressed
A kiss so warm and tender
I can't wait 'til we've reached
That sweet moment of surrender
Ohh we'll hear the thunder roar
Feel the lightening strike
At a point we both decided to meet
At the same time tonight

Hang on in there baby
Hang on in there darling
I'm gonna give you more
Than you ever dreamed possible
Don't be afraid baby, no way
Sweet virgin of the world, yeah

We can't help but make it (we can't help but make it)
Because there's true love between us girl
Ohh so let us touch that cloud
Everyone dreams of
Oh we're almost there darling
We're truly making love

Hang on in there baby
Please don't let me down
Please don't destroy
This new joy we've found

Ohh ohh

What's that now baby
What's that you say
Something's eating at you
And it's about to get away
Don't fight it baby you'd better open up the door
'Cause that's the key to freedom that we've both been working for
Let it go baby, let it go honey
Ohhh right there, right there
Baby don't you move it anywhere

Go baby, let it go baby
Let it go honey, oh honey
Oh right there, right there
Baby don't you move it
Don't you dare

Hang on in there baby
Hang on in there darling
I'm gonna give you more
Than you ever dreamed possible
Hang on in there baby
Please don't let me down
Please don't destroy
This new joy we've found

Hang on in there baby
Hang on in there darling (hang on in there darling)
I'm gonna give you more (gonna give you more)
Than you ever dreamed possible
Hang on in there baby (yeah)
Please don't let me down
Please don't destroy
This new joy we've found

Hang on in there baby
Hang on in there darling (hang on in there baby)
I'm gonna give you more (hang on in there baby)
Than you ever dreamed possible
Hang on in there baby (yeah)
Please don't let me down
Please don't destroy
This new joy we've found

My Commitment-Gary Barlow

My commitment, my commitment is to live to love you
I will hold you I will show you
You can put your faith in me
All of my life I'll be all that you need

You say you need two arms to hold you
You say you need a touch that's strong
All, all, all I can give you
Love to last a lifetime long
Hear what I'm saying baby

My commitment, my commitment, my commitment to you
My commitment, my commitment is to live to love you
I will hold you (I will hold you)
I will show you (I will show you)
You could put your faith in me
All of my life I'll be all that you need

I'll dry each tear each time you cry baby
I'll love you from the heart, yes I will
I'll, I'll, I'll never leave you
Forever you'll be safe within these arms
Don't you hear what I'm saying baby

My commitment, my commitment, my commitment to you
My commitment, my commitment is to live to love you
I will hold you (I will hold you)
I will show you (show you girl)
You could put your faith in me (yeah yeah)
All of my life I'll be all that you need

All of my life I'll be all that you need
I will give you strength
I'll give you faith
I'll give you all of me
This time this love won't let you down
This time you can believe in me
Let my love be the answer to your questions
In your heart
Look in your soul and see
You will see (you will see)
That I'll be
All, all, all, that you need
All, all, all, that you need

I will hold you (I will hold you)
I will show you (show you babe)
You could put your faith in me (yeah yeah)
All of my life I'll be all that you need

My commitment, my commitment, my commitment to you
My commitment, my commitment is to live to love you
I will hold you (I will hold you)
I will show you (I will show you)
You could put your faith in me
All of my life I'll be all that you need

My commitment, my commitment, my commitment to you (yeah all that you need)
My commitment, my commitment is to live to love you (to live to love you baby)
I will hold you (I will hold you)
I will show you (I will show you)
You could put your faith in me (put your faith in me)
All of my life I'll be all that you need

All of my life I'll be all
I'll be all
That you need

Saturday, 25 November 2017

So Help Me Girl-Gary Barlow

You could've kissed me, like this wasn't gonna last
Kept me from saying, something I'll never take back
You could've held me like there was no chance
Of me waking up where I am
You could've stopped short of every dream I've ever had

So help me girl, you've gone too far
It's way too late, to save my heart
The way it feels, each time we touch
I know I've never been so loved
And I can't help myself
So help me girl

Oh yeah
You gotta help me girl

You had to be there until the sun came up
Making last night feel like a vision of things yet to come
You just had to hold me like nobody else
Now look what you've gone and done
You had to love me, till I just can't get enough

Please, help me girl...

So help me girl, you've gone too far
It's way too late, to save my heart
The way it feels, each time we touch
I know I've never been so loved
And I can't help myself

So help me girl you've gone too far
It's way too late, to save my heart
The way it feels, each time we touch
I know I've never been so loved
And I can't help myself...
No, baby
I can't help myself...
I can't help myself...
So help...girl.

You've got to help me girl.
I'm falling down... (falling, falling, falling)
I'm falling down... (You've got me falling down!)
Cause I'm falling down... (You've got me falling down!)
Falling...(You've got me falling down!)

[Fade out]


Love Won't Wait-Gary Barlow

When I first saw your face
Knew that I could not hesitate
You said, "Baby don't go too fast
If we do then it may not last"

Time went on and I waited for you
I didn't know what else I could do
(What else should I do)
I thought that we'd always be together
You said, "Hold on, it just gets better"

And I believed you
I kept holding on
You think that I can never leave you
You think I'm not that strong
You're wrong

[Chorus:]
Love won't wait (Love won't wait)
Forever and a day (Love won't wait)
Love must live in the here and now
Don't ask me how I know

So here I am with my heart on my sleeve
You said, "Baby put your trust in me"
But I have come to the end of the line
And you've wasted up all of my precious time

Wanted to be something special to you
Everybody's somebody's fool
(Won't be a fool)
No, you've got me all wrong
(You've got me all wrong)
You don't know what you have
Till it's gone

And I believed you
I kept holding on
You think that I can never leave you
You think I'm not that strong
You're wrong

[Repeat Chorus]

Love takes time (Love takes time)
But you've been takin' too long
(Take too long)
Time never waited for anyone
Don't wait too long
Or I'll be gone
Don't Wait too long
I'll be gone
I'll be gone

(Or there) There wasn't anything
That I wouldn't do
(And you) You led me on
You even said, "I love you"
(I love you, baby)
How can we go on
When it's tearin' us apart
(How can we love)
Are you going to break my heart?
'Cause I believed you

[Repeat Chorus]

Love takes time (Love takes time)
But you've been takin' too long
(Take too long)
Time never waited for anyone
Don't wait too long
Or I'll be gone
Don't Wait too long
I'll be gone
I'll be gone

Love takes time
Don't let this love just pass by us
It's not too late, you must choose
Love is so hard to find
And so easy to lose